I'm getting married, I think

So I'm planning a wedding. Specifically, my wedding. It is a very surreal experience because it involves so much planning for other people on a day that is really supposed to be about you, your partner, and the life commitment you are making. I'm having a hard time balancing what I think I would like to have personally with what I know that we need to do in order to make sure our families are satisfied. I keep hoping that I'm going to have a fantastic vision pop in to my head one of these days...